They dip a toe in the bowl to pay for a concert or something and then get out. So it takes time to find a real SB or SD.
This makes a lot of sense. I have a POT that'll text on and off and has been for months, we've never worked anything out since I've always been out of town or when I'm around she ghosts. Your statement made something click, she may only reach out when she has a need and runs down a list of "daddies" and whomever responds first gets her.
This is relatively common. I've messaged women on SA and texted, and decided they aren't for me. They come 'round every once in a while, clearly when they need an infusion of cash.
I also had one relatively steady SB who broke it off because she found a full-time 'real' boyfriend. Fair enough, and I wished her well. Well when a semester started she texted me looking for a one-timer. As much as I was attracted to her, that particular scene didn't interest me in the least! One thing that really confuses me about this forum is why so many people focus on labels and it seems everyone thinks that their definitions of these labels are the only correct definitions.
I understand that SA has to deny that escorts use their service because of legal risks. The proof is in the pudding.
If you get what you desire out of a relationship then it is a success but I see no purpose in using ill defined labels. You or she could disappear tomorrow. With sugar, the relationship is less transactional and not wiped clean after every encounter unless maybe that is how PPM people think. They money clears that up. So the duration and amount of emotional labor and engagement is different.
That is how I think of it. When people say NSA I think they are hoping for some magic word to make there be no obligation, without having to deal with the consequences of that. Everyone defines an SR in their own term and many not honestly but I agree; One of the parts of an SR I really enjoy is that emotional connection.
If I just wanted sex I would hire an escort. It's just as much money and a lot less effort. NSA is a turn off for me. Because like you said, I want more than that. I treat an SR like an actual relationship. And of course also great sex. When I was searching months ago it became extremely frustrating weeding out all the NSA and "nothing serious" profiles. While I understand that SA isn't meant to find love it still blew my mind how little commitment and effort most of the SBs in my area were bringing to the table.
I guess follow up question, what do you think the ratio of those just wanting a sexual SR to those who want more? I think the end of ads on craigs list and a number of other sites have driven a lot of escorts and escort clients to SA. NSA as you describe it is basically an extended date with an escort, for a discount relative to an escort's hourly rate, with a woman who is presumably seeing fewer men than an escort.
If you want to be cynical, these are men who are unable to afford an escort for what they want, but recognize they can find that in an SB.
For me, I appreciate a lot of those characteristics, but where things change is that I care about my SBs well-being, and as long as I can help them without exposing myself, I will do so. An escort doesnt want to get to know you, no dates, movies, spending tine, usually. Your on the clock with them by the minute.
A sr is almost no different than a regular vanilla relationship except your supporting the sb with the cards on the table. That feels really sad to me.
For me that's the case if I wasn't attracted to someone in SR, if I was just attracted to their money, in vanilla if I was just attracted to their body I wouldn't call that dating if it's mainly just sex , I'd call it fwb. This is the second post or third I've seen comparing sugar dating to "ladies of the night". The other is some woman who was at risk of being outed as a "lady of the night" or sugar baby - posting in two forums.
Escorts dont usually want to know anything about you. They want to get in and out so they can go back to their lives. A sb is basically a paid gf. An escort wont usually have dinner with you, movies, etc. A sb usually does all those things but is also directly supported too.
While there are some where I'm sure it's just a money issue, there is still another potential facet to it. Assuming you are in the US, there is also the legal side of it as well. I honestly don't pay attention to things like that or care. The only ones who care are those that want to be labeled or label others.
Though I do like the idea of a girl limiting it to me and possibly someone else she pretends doesn't exist vs me and the 5 other guys that day and 20 that week and more until I see her next Even the best GFE's i've experienced were rather "service" oriented and a bit mechanical. I have to watch the clock as much as the provider. A lot of providers will claim that the session is "not rushed" and that they're not "clock watching". But they do watch the clock and keep time.
Some girls claim low-volume and that they only see one client per day,maybe true, but that could still mean several clients a week. What you describe is literally hiring an escort. It's not a SR. I want to emphasise there is nothing wrong with that, before I get accused of "escort shaming", it's simply something different. A real SR is, as you say, a full relationship.
You support and care for each other. It's far more involved than occasional dinner and sex dates. I think the difference is volume and commitment.
An escort sees a large volume and is not committed beyond the hour appointment. A SB is committed to a regular relationship and sees a generally low number of men. How low is up to each person but in my book a SB who sees more than one SD is verging on escort territory.
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